my apple AirPods 2 will not work at all with my iPhone XS Max since I updated it to 14. It crashes my phone when I try to use any music platform or tv app when my AirPods are connected. So I have a pair of 130$ garbage until apple figures this out?

So I just connected them to my work iPhone running 13 and they work just fine... so Apple needs to get their stuff together and fix the 14 version or show me how to go back to 13!