The take away here is that Apple is clearly not a serious company. This was well and good when hardly anyone used them for anything important, and they could claim "We do better because we focus on one set of hardware", but then Apple got big and never grew in two important ways: Working with hardware that they didn't personally-overcharge you for Critical features that Microsoft has had for decades, like rolling back broken updates. But hey, the touchbar can run Doom, so it's worth it!

Last two updates, along with resetting NVRAM and SMC on my intel macbook 16" pro 2019 seem to have resolved most of these issues.

What year is that laptop PavelDV? Based on the last several updates, it seems like Apple has been trying to fix the issue (and failing, mostly). However, for some people it is fixed. My guess is that it's as fixed as it will get. I am not sure if the latest laptops have this problem, so the impetus to keep working on it is probably gone. If it still occurs, you have two options: downgrade to big sur and enjoy a non-broken apple experience install bootcamp and enjoy Windows