In order to see the option for developer mode, youll have to open xcode.
Then choose
Product > Destination > Manage Destination
Once you have this menu open on your Mac, you can then open your iphone and go to Settings > Privacy & Security > Developer Mode.
This is where you will enable it and then restart your device. After that youre good.
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Developer Tools & Services
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Xcode
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