Yeah this also something that hinders me migrating to RealityView, since using ARView (the RealityView UIKit equivalent) offers this options and works well.
Maybe try using ARView for now? Or you could try accessing the backing ARView (assuming there is one) using something like https://github.com/FiveSheepCo/SwiftUI-Inspect – not pretty though.
Topic:
Graphics & Games
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RealityKit